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I was just telling someone yesterday that one of the reasons why I love following your work is that it reminds me I have the permission to do so many things, than I CAN. Thank you for being annoying!! :p

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May 15, 2023Liked by Cody Cook-Parrott

Got a smug smile for you re: how good this one is.

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This was exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you. Wrote this morning in my morning pages about realizing I don't care (or, at least, don't want to care) about growing my subscribers/followers. Every time I publish a newsletter, I lose a few subscribers, and I'm at a place where I'm thinking, "oh, that's great!" Why would I want a subscriber who doesn't really want to read my stuff? I don't want to grow for the sake of the numbers, like just amassing these numbers. I want to grow slowly for the sake of building a group of actual humans who like what I make. (And who are happy to hear me tell them what I'm doing and making.)

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Thank you for this major medicine today!

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Somewhere in the middle of reading this I burst into tears because I've been so confused on this issue. And I feel like another piece is that if you're 'supposed' to engage in X number of marketing efforts and it feels weird or exhausting, you can do half or a third rather than none at all. Thank you for your wisdom <3

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THANK YOU FOR THIS. I look forward to this newsletter every week!! How said it would be if you decided not to share in fear of being “annoying” but oh goodness can I relate to this!!!!

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Thank you thank you thank you for this! Especially the tip on sitting with feeling "annoying", and that it often means we aren't promoting ENOUGH. So much resonance.

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i really needed to hear this today. thank you

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